Want episodes before anyone else? Download The High Performance App: https://hppod.co/app Renowned physician and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté, joins Jake and Damian for an insightful and transformative conversation. Known for his expertise in addiction, trauma, and mind-body health, Gabor brings decades of knowledge to the table, offering a unique perspective on personal well-being and healing. 🚨 Partners Huel 👉 Get £25 off the Taster Bundle. Unlock your offer here: http://huel.com/highperformance Heights 👉 https://hppod.co/Heights Get 20% off your subscription by using Code: HP20 FORA 👉 Claim a free day pass at any Fora workspace and find the perfect home for your business here: https://hppod.co/FORAHP Thanks to Vanta for sponsoring this video! Get $1,000 off Vanta at https://vanta.yt.link/3KbQMbA. Explore offers and discounts through our other partners: https://hppod.co/partners In this episode, Gabor discusses the science of compassionate parenting and how it can build stronger relationships with our children. He also shares tips on how to develop a sense of wholeness in our lives, explaining why this is key to personal growth and emotional balance. Gabor explores how stress can be triggered by uncertainty, conflict, and lack of control, and gives practical advice on how to manage these stressors. He also gives strategies for saying "no" more effectively and explains how unhelpful belief systems form. Gabor also offers tips on how to begin shifting those beliefs to improve self-esteem and mental health. This episode provides valuable insights, offering an opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of themselves, their relationships, and the underlying causes of stress. 0:00 Introduction 0:45 Tell Me Who You Are 2:52 Losing Wholeness 8:55 The Problem With Parenting 13:12 Compassionate Enquiry 16:40 Questions To Ask Yourself 22:12 How To Say No 27:18 Searching For Yourself 35:04 Trauma Triggers 40:26 Re-Wiring An Unhelpful Belief System 43:28 Quick-Fire Questions #HighPerformance #GaborMate